It’s okay to be discouraged. It’s not okay to quit:
Feeling discouraged is an inevitable part of any long-term pursuit or significant goal. There will be setbacks, obstacles, periods of doubt – it’s simply unrealistic to expect a easy, linear path to success.
What separates those who accomplish great things from those who don’t is the ability to power through discouragement without giving up. It’s okay, and even necessary, to acknowledge tough times and feel discouraged at points. Emotions are signals that something may need adjusting, not signs that we should abandon ship.
The problem arises when we confuse discouragement with defeat, and use short-term disappointment as an excuse to quit entirely. But quitting guarantees failure, while pushing on despite discouragement at least allows for eventual triumph. As Winston Churchill said, “success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm.”
When I’m feeling low, I find it helpful to remember three things:
- Discouragement is temporary. How I feel right now won’t be how I feel forever. This too shall pass.
2. I’m not my discouragement. I am so much more than any emotion. My worth isn’t defined by setbacks.
3. Quitting now means losing all future potential for success and growth. By continuing with grit and resilience, I leave possibility open.
The next time doubt creeps in, let it serve as a signal to regroup and adjust your approach – not to give up your dreams. Staying in the game is what keeps hope of victory alive. So when discouragement strikes, take a deep breath and keep putting one foot in front of the other. You’ve got this.
Thank you for reading!
